1. When you facing "living people" and "acquaintances", please prepare two live chat systems
When these two kinds of people appear, it is necessary to slightly condense the acquaintances and ask more questions to the strangers. Only by mastering the necessary basic materials can you judge whether this person is a serious person or an informal person. Pinch scales will be more accurate.
You can't be scrupulous because someone you know is present. In the end, you often lose the face of your friends and yourself.
2. Don't do closed-loop answers, throw the words back
Most people choose the part that they are good at when they ask questions, and toss him the questions they ask. The other party is very happy and you are happy. You just need to add some in the middle, "Is that right?" "Ah?" "What happened?" The topic is expected to live chat for a long time.
It doesn't matter if you don't understand. Nothing is more enjoyable than telling someone who doesn't understand but who is very interested in telling you what you are good at.
3. "Sorry I speak more directly" is the palest explanation
Don't expect you to speak directly at live support, and use "Sorry to speak more directly" to minimize the harm.
People will only remember your hurt. So when you're going to talk hard to alert the other person, using a pause will be more effective than this remedy. Don't be afraid to tear your face if you say it, don't say it if you feel heavy.
If you get cheap, you still have to be good. After heavy talk, I hope the other party will forgive you immediately. This is impossible and live chat skill.
4. Everyone likes to be praised, but try not to exceed three sentences
If you praise too much, it will either look fake or you will be born. Praise should be from the heart, but be skillful.
Sometimes "You look particularly good today" is more practical than "You look so beautiful in this dress", because you can't remember if she wore the same dress yesterday.
For girls, direct and excessive compliments will win a good impression for a while, and then they will become slick.
5. If you don't want to answer, ask back is the best answer
There are always people who are not attentive and even have slow reflection arcs to ask questions that make you embarrassed or inconvenient to answer. At this time, you can directly ask him the original topic and try to divert your attention. A reminder.
If the other person just wants to break the casserole and ask, then if you don't want to answer, you don't have to save face.
6. live chat "information" from daily scrap reading
This is especially suitable for the kind of colleague relationship, having lunch together at noon, meeting in the tea room in the afternoon, occasionally chatting a few words to pass the embarrassment.
Rather than talking about a colleague's gossip and a boss's gossip, spend ten minutes a day browsing the daily news and gossip news, which will become the most basic talk.
7. develop a hobby or two, make it part of your topic
You belong to work for eight hours, and you belong to yourself beyond eight hours. How to enrich yourself is the beginning of a good live chat. Reading, music, these things sometimes pick people, not everyone can appreciate and resonate. Making models and collecting specimens are particularly unpopular, and it is estimated that only fellows can share them. But food, movies, most of these people will be involved and can express their views.
Try to choose one or two more popular things to do, it will easily make you get more feedback in the crowd. If you want to be a good person, please start by enriching your life.
8. At the end of the topic, leave the topic to the next person
When your speech is too long, try to leave the topic to the next person at the end of the topic.
You will inevitably come across a topic that you are good at, or a topic that you know more, and it is not bad to be the center of the topic, but if you are a shy person inward, you always feel that the topic is just talking Having said that, I don't know how to end it. Then try to leave the topic to the end.
For example, someone mentioned a star at lunch, and you just saw one of his recent gossips. After you say it happily and don't like the topic ending here, you might as well add a sentence, but how did you start to like him? Or, hasn't he played a TV series recently? What do you think
9. It is "humorous" to use it correctly, but it is better to use it "silently".
Humor is a natural thing, and it is not something that can be performed after a joke or a paragraph. So if you are still a novice, I suggest that you first find someone in the circle who you think is humorous, then take down his passages and stalks and practice at another party with a little practice. If there is a response, it is great Great, if you do n’t respond, try it. It ’s not bad.
Don't memorize the game by rote, it will be trivial to hurt your self-esteem, leaving shadows more troublesome.
10. Don't be afraid of the cold field, this is not the pit you want to fill
Some people are very afraid of empty topics, and feel that it is embarrassing for several people to sit face to face. Then live chat, but there will always be a vacant field after a period of chatting. At this time, they always feel that they are particularly obliged to fill this "empty." "The more the results, the more embarrassing it is to talk about the results, the more I want to heat up the atmosphere.
In fact, very calmly picked up the cup to pretend to drink water, just let the cold field stop there, anyway, there will always be someone to speak again.